LOOK BEYOND THAT

LOOK BEYOND THAT

Before you rain those curses on her, try to look beyond her words and actions.  Not all saucy and rude ladies out there have forgotten their manners. Neither is it all fun to be high on drugs and portrait a mannerless being.  Some are like that due to  some round holes having a square peg in their lives. Resulting to ugly hardware function, that has its root from the software settings that has been disturbed.

Sometimes, there is always something they are trying to hide. Something they are trying to cover with that act and expressions of false confidence, false self defense, fake self worth. Few minutes into any discussion or argument, they spit their anger on your face, before you can ever question their worth, standard or even where they come from. 

That is disgusting, but that was the only way they thought their depression, low self-esteem, brokenness, fear, hopelessness and the likes can be covered. After being a victim of a dysfunctional home or  of an abuse, left with all these brokenness to battle on their own, in order to live again, some ignorantly chose this wrong path. They tend to put their puzzles together, not understanding what true confidence and self-esteem is. 

Unfortunately, you share out of the agony of their heart through their expression in terms of rudeness at your end. These souls need help, they need to understand what true self worth is. 

The next time you meet one, look beyond those words of abuse, take them not to heart. Try to seek a way to help and relieve that heart of its burden. 

_*Knowing what a dysfunctional home can produce to the society, make your marriage work at all cost and be a good example to the kids in your community. Abuse them not in any way, give good advice to people that need it around you.*_ 

 _Look beyond that act before you judge, not all ugly acts are genuinely from the heart._

©️ Arete.